You cannot visit Sri
Lanka without absorbing the gentle philosophy of Buddhism, which is prevalent in
every day life and an important part of the local culture.
Sri Lanka’s natural
beauty and charm is utterly inspiring if you are looking for an experience of
the body, mind and soul this paradise island is the ideal destination!
This is a Special
- an ADD ON
placement - this means you can add it on to your longer term project in Sri Lanka
either at the beginning of your trip, in the middle, at the end or whenever you
choose. You can even decide to do it once you are already in Sri Lanka! We do
recommend however that you spend at least 3 days in Sri Lanka adjusting to the
heat and recovering from jetlag before you embark upon the meditation retreat.
After experiencing the meditation centre ourselves first hand we recommend a
1-week add on at the centre or a 2-week add on placement, for a truly remarkable
experience enjoying or discovering meditation.
The meditation centre is situated in a town called Gampaha.
This is about 1.5 hours north of Colombo and 50 minutes from the main
volunteer house in Ja-Ela. The centre is separated into different areas,
with lots of small huts splayed out in extremely peaceful surroundings
beneath a jungle canopy.
The centre is in a beautiful setting in a reasonably small
area. It is very peaceful and relaxed, with sunny and shady areas to sit
and relax in. Women and men are separated. This is a real Buddhist retreat and not a meditation
school. Other people in the retreat will be largely locals from nearby
towns who are studying Buddhism or simply feel the need for some faith and
restoration.
Dropping into a Buddhist retreat for a few weeks is not
uncommon in Sri Lanka as meditation is highly regarded as a way to heal
and replenish the soul. There may be one or two other westerners or
other Travellers volunteers there with you at the same time.
The centre
is silent and no talking is permitted. The silence is something that
takes some getting used to. However it also comes as a tremendous relief
as there is no polite chitchat required! Should you need to ask a
question or make contact with someone you may do so, respectfully.
YOUR
PLACEMENT AND
WHAT TO EXPECT:
Many of the other people in the retreat may be there for
anything between 2 weeks and 6 months. Your stay of 1 or 2 weeks will be
relatively very brief. However, as a westerner with little or no
experience of meditation previously, this will probably be long enough.
During an initial exploration into meditation, a new sense of
self-discipline must be acquired. To do nothing, all day long, is
difficult. Should you want to stay longer than 2 weeks, of course you can
(subject to availability),
and this can be arranged through the Sri Lankan staff at the time.
The first 2-3 days of a meditation retreat are the hardest.
This is how long it takes to unwind and slow down from a life of
deadlines, responsibilities, distractions, aggressive advertising,
conflicts, rushing, traffic, communication, relationships, to-do lists and
so on. For a long time you have been on fast forward in your life and
suddenly there is absolutely nothing to do. All you have to do now, is be.
You will probably go through a range of emotions and
physical sensations in the first few days. These will include everything
from relief and peace to frustration and boredom. What you will notice
however is that everything you feel and experience will change. Each state
will pass to be replaced with a new one. Boredom will give way to
euphoria; anger will give way to acceptance, fear to comfort and so on.
All you have to do is just breathe, note how you feel and experience the
feeling without fighting it.
When the noise of the outside world is turned
down and the distractions are taken away from us, our awareness comes back
to us and a meditation retreat enables us to journey inside and find a
sense of calm and balance.
After the first few days, the meditation gets easier. You
acclimatised to the pace, the silence, the routine. You slow down to the
rhythm around you. It is now that you start to hear the sounds of the
jungle better, notice the wildlife in the trees above you, the way the
insects move, the changing lights of the forest. You begin to appreciate
everything in a deeper way; the hot afternoon lemon tea, the sun on your
back, a smile. You are not in a rush and your thoughts have slowed down
also, they are less ferocious and demanding and sometimes, briefly, there
are no thoughts. This is the time when inspiration can come, creativity,
insights and understanding are able to surface when your mind is peaceful
and you are completely relaxed.
CAUTION! A meditation
retreat can be a very intense experience. Anyone who has recently been
through a traumatic experience may find the experience too much and it may
not be helpful to you at this stage. We highly recommend that you consider
this meditation retreat only if you feel that you are currently in sound
and stable mind.
PROGRAMME SCHEDULE:
04:00: Get up, 7 strokes of the gong
05:00: Gruel - take cup, handbell
06:45: Breakfast - take plate and cup, 3 strokes of
gong
07:45: Meditation, 3 strokes of gong
08:45: Meditation ends, 1 stroke of gong
After Meditation: King Coconut Juice - take cup,
handbell
11:15: Lunch - take plates, cup, spoon, 3 strokes of
gong
12:30: Meditation, 3 strokes of gong
13:20: Meditation ends, 1 stroke of gong
After Meditation: Tea - take cup, handbell
14:00: Monk comes, can talk with him.
18:00: Puja Prayer (optional)
After Puja: Tea - take cup, handbell
19:15: Meditation, 3 strokes of gong
20:15: Meditation ends, 1 stroke of gong
22:00: Retire to your room, 1 stroke of gong
LUNCH: Lunch is served by several women and children. It is always
rice and curry with lots of variety and endless portions. The food is mostly
vegetarian, with some fish. There is warm water, and pudding of fruit,
yogurt and something very sweet, which varies. Some people save their
pudding snacks. This is wise as you do not get to eat again for the
remainder of the day (unless you have taken some secret snacks)!
MONK TIME: After lunch is free time until 2pm. Then the monk comes and sits
for anyone who wants to come and talk with him. He speaks English. This is
the time to ask questions, get help, or discuss any problems that you are
having. Anything at all can be discussed here. Someone is there everyday at
2pm. Sometimes the monk may give you a book to read on how to meditate.
Otherwise he will answer any questions that you may have about your
meditation.
You are encouraged not to write or read, unless advised by the
monk or teacher. Sometimes there will also be guided meditation sessions by
the head monk, when he is in town. These take place in English.
In Buddhism the lotus flower symbolizes
faithfulness
JOURNAL EXTRACTS from the Meditation Centre, Letitia Hardy
“I arrived at
11am, just in time for lunch, the last meal of the day. The food was tasty
and there was lots of it, a big selection of curries with rice. There were
three ladies dishing out the food and watching us eat it in silence,
refilling our bowls as they saw necessary. I was the only westerner here and
as such had the pleasure of next in line of importance to the three shaven
headed orange clad, lady-monks. The other side of me there were about 10 Sri
Lankan ladies ranging in age from about 20 to 60 years. All were sweet,
caught up in their own worlds and occasionally smiling at the confused
westerner. At just 5 foot 4 I was by far the tallest of them all.
I ate with
my fingers as is customary and hoped it was all vegetarian. The rest of the
day passed with intermittent sitting and walking meditation.
Walking
meditation is interesting. Once I was in the flow it was great, feeling the
warmth of the sand beneath my bare feet, listening to the sounds of the
jungle and breathing the heavy humid air. I found walking far easier than
sitting and it made a nice break.
After the 7pm
black tea we had an hour of sitting meditation altogether inside, under
mosquito nets as the light in the forest faded for the day. The first day
was strange but special. I went through a full range of emotions, feelings
and thoughts. For the full session I aimed to keep my mind concentrated on
my breath, the ‘inhale-exhale’ and focusing my attention on either my lower
stomach rising and falling or on the air passing through my nose, in and
out. This was all I had to do, to disregard all other thought for 1 hour. It
is really difficult and takes time and practise to achieve. I found myself
planning my homecoming to Brighton, making optimistic New Year's resolutions,
reminiscing, dreaming, singing and a whole range of other unnecessary
thoughts were invading my mind, making me forget to think of the breath
alone. Between each mental hike I would remember where I was and what I was
suppose to be doing and I would come back to the breath.
Fantasising,
planning, worrying - they are all natural barriers to successful meditation
and all completely normal. However the challenge in meditation is to
concentrate the mind.
Some parts can be hard, like the evenings after the last meditation session,
when you are not sleepy enough to sleep, but there is nothing to do for
distraction. Some times are magical though, such as when you see the morning
light awaken the jungle and you can hear the noises of the crickets subside
and the singing of the birds increase. The evening sunset as the light fades
is just as special and darkness descends on the jungle for the night. You
feel so far away from the stressful life you left.
A very memorable moment
for me was when I spotted a family of monkeys silhouetted in the trees above
me. Only I had seen them. There were two adults and a baby and they were
playing, swinging the baby about and chasing each other playfully amongst
the branches. This was a delight to watch."
TRAVEL
AND VISAS:
You have the option to arrange your
own flights or we can assist you with your flight arrangements. If you would
like us to do this for you, we will liaise with you regarding available flights
and dates to suit you. All arrangements for your flight bookings/payments will
be fulfilled by Murray Rogers Travel Ltd., ATOL No. 6856. (Read more about Murray Rogers Travel Ltd.)
Where possible, we arrange for two or more people to travel on the
same flight and we will let you have the names and telephone numbers of other
volunteers on your flight, so that you can chat to each other or even meet up
before leaving for your placement.
Where possible, all flights we
arrange for you have changeable return tickets because many of our volunteers
choose to extend their stay once they are in their destination country.
Changeable return tickets enable you to do so, within the limits of your visa
and the level of your air ticket, of course. If you choose to book your own
flights, you should endeavour to get a changeable ticket. We meet you at the
airport regardless of whether you make your own travel arrangements or not.
VISAS:. No visa is required for the first 30 days. For longer
stays, we'll send you all the necessary forms and information and
make the process very easy for you.
You will fly into Sri Lanka and the airport is
only about 20 minutes away from Ja-Ela. You will be met by our
organiser and taken to your school and your Sri Lankan home.
We can also arrange your flight dates to give
you additional time at the end of your project for travelling around and
sightseeing - this is a fascinating and wondrous country!
To read about the extensiveSupport & Backup we provide in our countries,
please click here.
PRICES
To see the Prices of this project and all
our other projects in Sri Lanka, please
click here
Prices
include
Food & accommodation while on your project,
2 T-shirts, if required
for your project
All support and backup
during your programme
Meeting you at the
nearest airport, where appropriate, but exclude international travel.